This happened recently when my friends Esther and Tom got married and had a beautiful ceremony and celebration in a little village in The Lakes. But what was I going to get them?
It strikes me that we needed fewer and fewer things as we get older because we are bestowed with so much as a child and are most of us prone to the consumerist bug every now and again. However, there is an onus in the 21st century society on having and getting and receiving, making it more and more difficult to choose something that people actually want/need/care about.
Of course Esther and Tom are not in the slightest bit materialistic, making this somewhat easier when it comes to crafting something for them. (You wouldn't be able to get away with this for some people as, no doubt for many, the acquisition of material worth is precisely the point of receiving a gift.)
So, I decided to do an individualistic twist on a gift I gave my sister for her 30th. Instead of a plaque with a rose, I created a plaque/collage bearing their names - something they could treasure for a lifetime.
As all Brits, I am obsessed with the weather and think weather symbols are adorable. Plus, using the weather as a theme is not only timeless but also allows you to play around with colour and texture.
At first I was a little dismayed (as I always am when I finish a creation) that it bore little resemblance to what I wanted it to be. But as days went by and I'd glance over at my craftwork, I was filled with a satisfaction that this little labour of love was cute, colourful and definitely unique. A sense that I certainly would not have got had I gone to the nearest gift shop and bought something totally meaningless and pointless. Why not judge for yourselves and let me know what you think! If you have something similar that you'd like, just drop me an e-mail and I can come up with all sorts of bespoke designs!